Heat a skillet (cast iron preferred) over medium heat. Add the melted butter and jalapeño, then add the corn and cook. Stir in the honey, cayenne pepper, and salt, and continue to cook until the corn is caramelized.
Add the lime juice and stir to mix well. Top with cilantro, cheese, and a pinch of cayenne pepper, and serve immediately.
Notes
You may also use Cojita cheese, or any crumbled and mild tasting crumbled cheese of your choice.